Hello, friends. I am back with a second lesson I learned from my own experience. I am sure many of you or I should say all of you will agree with me with this one. So the second chapter is ‘Be You No Matter What’.
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it’s time to pause and reflect.
More often than not I see people not do something out of fear of what others may think. That something that they were going to do, however, showcases their personality. The fear of not being liked, being different, or being weird restrains us from being our complete selves. Why is that? Why do we let what others think to control our entire being?
Being able to express yourself in your own way has to be one of the greatest feelings in the world. It is a feeling of self-accomplishment and pride in one’s work. Having the ability to do this is an amazing characteristic that us humans have. But hiding that quality makes you feel small and belittled. Why do we let ourselves hide our talents? We are just as crazy, cool, different, and imperfectly perfect as the next person.
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
Many of my readers may be knowing about my love for the retro songs. I am proud of that thing. I know most of the people of this generation, of my generation likes listening to EDM and all but I at any given time will prefer Kishore Kumar and Bob Dylan over any of the modern singers. Maybe people will judge me for this but I always tell myself that I Don’t Care.
I am too old school for my generation, and I am proud of it. I am a die-hard fan of vintage stuff, be it typewriter, fountain pen or a polaroid camera. A diary and a pen can never be replaced by notes on a cell phone. I think old school is not just a tag but, it’s a way of life. There was a time when I used to think that maybe I am just a boring person and other’s are so cool, but with time I realized that there is an undeniable hollowness within each of us that could only be filled in with things which are more permanent, promising and real.
I always say that if a person like me can accept who he is and be himself in every situation, irrespective of caring about what other’s will be thinking then why can’t you guys be yourself and live your life your own way.
Go out and be yourself. I’ve been called weird, obnoxious, and plenty of other things, but that is what makes me, me. I am happy with who I am as a person. I am able to help people, make my friends laugh, build positive relationships with others, and most importantly, I am happy with myself. No matter what the situation is, I am myself. Don’t let people bring you down for being you. You are great, special, and one of a kind.
By far, this is one of your best posts!
Very well written!
Keep going.
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That’s the best I can ever get.. Thanks a lot for your lovely words๐๐ I am really happy to see your comment๐๐
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Awesome post son.. keep going๐
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Thank you mom๐๐
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Awesome post man..
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Thank youโบ๏ธ
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The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
โ Friedrich Nietzsche
Yes, you are wiser than most of your own generation. You are confident and you will succeed in life. Follow your own path.๐
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That’s what I feel.. Being alone is better than being in a wrong company that pulls you back. Thanks a lot for saying so๐ I am glad you liked the post๐๐
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I truly enjoy reading your posts. Your writing is deep and inspirational ๐
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Thanks a lot. That’s the best compliment I can ever get. If even I can inspire 1 person then I’ll believe that my blog is successful๐๐
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This is indeed a good lesson…๐
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I am glad you liked it๐๐
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Yes. Be true to who you are and don’t ever let anyone change you……( unless you are a psychopath, out to murder innocent civilians…then maybe this lesson isn’t for you..)
Lol sorry, I just *had* to do that.
Great post!!!
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That’s one of the best comment I ever received. I am glad you liked the post๐ Thank you for commenting๐โบ๏ธ
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I liked your post .Itโs true ,we all are unique and have a diff style. There is no point of comparison with others
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Yup we all are unique and that’s what differentiate us all. We should not compare our lives with others.. Thank you for giving positive response to my posts๐๐
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I absolutely love this!
“Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons”๐ฆ๐
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Thanks a lot buddy. I am glad you liked the post๐๐
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I love your blog! Strong words…
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Thank you buddy for saying so๐๐
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My pleasure! ๐
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This is so wonderfully expressed Mehul. I have started a similar series. And I am loving your work on this. Keep up the good work!
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Thanks a lot. I am glad you liked it. I’ll definitely read your series too๐ Tomorrow will be my last post of the series๐๐
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Looking forward to it Mehul โก
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I know it’s a little late. My exams are going on.. M hoping to post next part soon
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Ink pens I sure miss them . EDM is over rated I agree!
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Yeah that’s true. I too miss them. In just hate EDM…
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The whole procedure for filling in the was so entertaining .
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Do you own a Polaroid camera??
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No I am poor ๐
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There is no such thing as poor.. Everyone is rich in their own way..
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I will be rich or poor the day I start earning .Maybe I am not poor but I am dependent for sure . ๐
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Don’t worry. Time will come when you will start earning๐
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Soon ๐
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Oh I still have the camera we used to put films into, but I definitely want one .
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Oh that’s great. I wanna buy a Polaroid camera. They are the one in which we put a film and get the photo instantly..
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Its approximately 4500
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I like one on Amazon which costs 8300
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Fuji ka ? I too have seen that .
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See this one http://www.amazon.in/Fujifilm-Instax-Instant-Camera-Raspberry/dp/B00O94JB1C/ref=sr_1_6?s=electronics&ie=UTF8&qid=1482783713&sr=1-6&keywords=polaroid+camera
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I saw this one. But it’s a little girly..
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Obviously , it’s pink it has progesterone written all over it .
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I know. That’s why I’ll buy the one I was telling you. It’s brown in colour…
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I still have floppies and cassettes .
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That’s great. I never used a floppy. But cassettes toh I too still have.. But don’t use them though..
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My player is messed up too .
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Ya they don’t work anymore but I still prefer to keep them. Lots of memories connected to that thing
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Yeah . God how much I love to collect what my mom calls “junk” specially books.
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Books.. They are love. I have a complete shelf for all the novels..
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I even keep my textbooks lol I ran out of space so I shifted in the store ๐ ๐
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Hehe. No. I don’t have my textbooks. Just the novels๐๐
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My mom leaves no opportunity to sneak them to out maid or raddiwala ๐ and then I get mad .
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Hehe.. My mom doesn’t do that. She knows about the stuff I like so she don’t touch them๐
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Now I am okay because of all the silver fish that is in there .
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Solver fish?
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Silver Fish . it’s a very beautiful insect you find in old books. it’s silver in colour and appears like a fish when it moves . Its very beautiful .
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Oh I don’t know about it. It’s good to know about something new.. Thank you for telling me๐
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Keep your 6th standard books you will know ๐ ๐ ๐
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Oh I don’t have them.. I don’t have any textbook… I only keep the books which I read..
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Well I cleared those lately .
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Oh. I still have my +2 books in the store room..
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Thank god I am not that crazy!
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I forgot to clear them. So they are still lying in the store on second floor ๐๐
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So you are at a level below me.
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Yeah you can say that๐๐
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Yeah you win !
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Everybody wins.. India won against Pakistan๐๐ you saw the match?
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I wanted to , but din’t watch.
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Oh. India won. It was a great match. India won by 125 runs
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Partaayyy.. well we all know India will win.
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Yeah that’s true. India will won the tournament too.. #bleedblue
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๐ ๐ cool.
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Yeah. Chlo it’s time to sleep now. It was nice talking to you after so long. Bbie tc๐
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Good Night ๐
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But I have three years worth of memories with my 12th std NCERT I do not have the heart to give it up.
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You know what each person is their own kind of mad , something we think is mad maybe normal for others. Cheers to madness!
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Yeah that’s true. Everybody is their own kind of weird.. Cheers to weirdness๐๐
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Very strong words, wonderfully expressed!
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Thank you very much. It feels great when someone likes your post. I am sorry for replying almost after a year. I don’t know how i missed this comment.
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You are an interesting writer too. Keep rocking ๐
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Thank you. That’s a big compliment for me๐๐
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