Hey guys. How are you all? It’s good to post second time in this week. I hope you liked my first post of this month. If you have not read it then I am leaving the link below for you people.
So let’s start with today’s topic, that is loneliness.
Being an introvert I like to stay alone and keep my feelings to myself. I don’t like to socialize much. But my introvert nature has developed a feeling of loneliness in me.
For introverts, loneliness usually is not from being alone but from not having someone to talk to when we have a concern, a bad day, a great idea, etc. I know I felt super lonely for the longest time and being around people made it worse. I have superficial friendships with people, but I didn’t have a close relationship with anyone, so I just felt like no one knew or understood me. I had to meet my emotional needs on my own, and that is why I felt lonely.
I’m lonely. And I’m lonely in some horribly deep way and for a flash of an instant, I can see just how lonely, and how deep this feeling runs. And it scares the shit out of me to be this lonely because it seems catastrophic.
I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emphasize my loneliness.
Lonely is not being alone, it’s the feeling that no one cares and I have the same feeling. I have been betrayed by people who once meant the world to me. I don’t have friends on whom I can rely. I can’t share my feelings with anyone. I have developed a feeling that everybody secretly hates my that’s why I keep a distance from people.
Buy one line helps me to cope with my loneliness, that is, You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with and I like to be all alone with myself in my thoughts, I like to be alone in my own world where things go according to plan and everything is perfect.
So at the end, I will like to ask you a question, How many of you have ever been a victim of loneliness and how you got out of it?